I read ur Blog Alice in Wonderland.
U r definitely concerned about someone, deeply.
What I got to understand in life till now is that Life follows a Law. Like all things of science follows a Law (Law of Gravity, etc.), life too has a law.
The law is preety much simple and I state it in scientific term:
For all Actions, there is an Equal and Opposite Reaction.
It's called the Cause and Effect, or the Sow and Reap Effect.
We all human beings are interconnected. We may not be believing in this initially, but trust me we are. So, the best part of this inter-connectiveness is, we can make a Cause for someone else and the Effect will also be seen in the other. Not always is the other person wrong, but it's our limited wisdom that we see things that are correct as wrong. So, this Cause that I make may well change our way of seeing, correcting us.
In other words, making a Cause gives an effect always. Good cause, good effect. Bad cause, bad effect. Please remember that each and every cause produces an effect. None escapes.
So, if the person for whom u are concerned has taken up smoking, for example, u urself take a cigeratte and throw it into a dustbin. Tell that u are doing this act, making this cause, so that all people of the world stops smoking. Specially, abt ur beloved person. (All means a bigger dream, ur beloved will also be included within that big dream.)
Never belittle yourself saying that how can cause made by me cause a big change.
Human revolution in 1 single man can bring about a change in a society, a country or even the complete mankind.
All of ur deeds, thoughts and words make causes.
Not sure in ur brighter days, but will always be there in dark with u.
Arindam
Hum
